Podcast Episode: Know Your Soul to Find Its Mate
- Savannah Rose Johnson, BA, CLC, RTT.P
- Apr 17
- 29 min read
Updated: Apr 21
In this episode, Savannah Rose explores the profound connection between self-awareness and the ability to cultivate healthy relationships. She emphasizes the importance of understanding oneself before seeking a partner, sharing personal experiences of finding peace and authenticity in her current relationship. Savannah discusses the significance of compassion, communication, and emotional availability in navigating challenges with a partner. She also highlights the role of healing in love, the necessity of grace in relationships, and the power of beliefs in attracting a soulmate. The conversation culminates in a message of hope and encouragement for listeners to embrace their journey towards love and self-discovery.
Below is the companion video, timestamps, full transcript, and also available streaming platforms.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Intentions
01:09 The Importance of Self-Relationship
02:18 Finding Peace in Partnership
05:26 Navigating Challenges with Self-Awareness
07:51 Compassion in Relationships
10:29 Authenticity and Communication
12:51 The Role of Healing in Love
15:30 Grace and Understanding in Relationships
18:01 Attracting Your Soulmate
20:50 Believing in True Love
23:10 Living in the Present Moment
25:38 The Power of Beliefs
28:33 The Timing of Love
30:54 Meeting Organically vs. Dating Apps
33:15 Expectations and Acceptance
35:39 Emotional Availability and Boundaries
38:30 Healing for Joy and Love
40:38 Reciprocity in Relationships
42:46 Gratitude and Future Aspirations
44:57 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement
Transcript:
Hello and welcome to the Eclipse Evolution podcast. I'm your host Savannah Rose. Thank you so much for joining me today. I'm so thankful to gather with you today. Thank you so much for spending your time and for spending your day listening to me and my thoughts. I just hope that a fraction of what I shared today, even if it's just 1%, impacts you positively and brings you some insights and self-awareness and some peace.
So thank you so much again and today's episode. I would like to chat about relationships not just Romantic relationships with someone else but ultimately the relationship with ourselves This is a theme that I have been meditating on for several years now at this point, but that has taken a whole new I guess you'd say turn as of entered a partnership the past several months
with a partner who's just absolutely wonderful who's very much I believe to be my soulmate and I just want to share with you my process and how I found my person like the person I want to be with as well as finding myself in order to attract this right partner because that's something that I ultimately want to bring home today is that you have to know your own soul
before you can attract its mate. And so just diving right in on those topics, that's something that
knowing ourselves and exploring ourselves and all the different sides and the light the shadow and also learning how to Hold ourselves. I think is so crucial in order to have a healthy sustainable relationship with someone who's truly in alignment with you that you're not settling for or making excuses for trying to fit into your life, but that truly complements you and challenges you to grow and
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and also helps you feel really peaceful. I think that's one of the things that was a key giveaway when it came down to my partner and...
Choosing to move forward into a relationship with him was that from the very beginning with him. It was still exciting I still had butterflies and I still get butterflies with him But overall my body felt this sense of peace being with him. I felt very very comfortable very at peace very much free to be myself and very safe with him and I think that that's something that
all of, I mean didn't have enough information logically about him as a person yet in those moments, but I knew the way my body was feeling was information because I remember in past relationships that were not meant to work out, not meant to be. I remember having like this...
hesitation and overriding that hesitation or maybe even just a gut feeling or something in my heart or my chest that was like, is not quite right. But I remember overriding that and like overriding that voice in my mind that would tell me like this, this isn't the person for you because I was so afraid of whether it was being by myself or losing that person or being rejected by that person or whatever the case was at that moment in time that kept me in
that cycle of overriding my intuition and my body's wisdom. Ultimately having to learn myself and learn what those cues are.
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in my body, like what are the yeses in my body, what are the nos in my body really helped steer me and guide me into this partnership now. And it still steers me, it still guides me in how I continue to show up in this relationship and how I navigate whether, I wouldn't even say conflict, but navigate challenges with my partner. And,
in moments that are maybe like emotionally intense for whatever reason or perhaps I'm still working through and healing some shadows within myself, which who isn't?
It's allowed me to continue to listen to myself and honor first and foremost that relationship with myself, not at the cost of my relationship with my partner, but really for the benefit truly. Cause I think that sometimes there's this pressure to choose.
your person or yourself or maybe even a pressure like, am I being selfish if I take time for myself or want to prioritize this project or whatever it is? And the answer is if you are doing it out of love for yourself and ultimately know that it's something that you need to do for you, it is going to benefit your relationship because if we put stuff on the back burner or we
ignore intuition or we override something in our body that's telling us that we need to do something or not do something. Ultimately, it's going to make us move more into that stressful state, move more into that ego state and move out of alignment. And therefore like when we're out of alignment with our true self,
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That's when we're going to be more vulnerable to the ego showing up or maybe even building resentment against our partner or picking fights with them or something, a way to like project our stress onto the situation. So all that to say, knowing ourselves, knowing how to tune into ourselves and listen to ourselves not only invites the right partner in and invites true love into our lives, but it allows you to nourish and nurture
and protect that love and that relationship as well.
I think that that's really important. I think part of also knowing your soul and knowing yourself and caring for yourself, it also boils down to, I mean, just having compassion, like really having compassion for yourself and knowing that you are never going to be, quote, fixed or perfect and then find your perfect person. I think it's important to show up to a relationship that's budding
with intentions of being open to it if that feels right. However, I think that knowing that there are going to be things that show up when you enter that relationship or that even as you're five, six, seven months or even years down the road, still things that are going to show up because healing is not linear. Different things can trigger us at different times. I think it's really important to be compassionate to yourself.
when those moments show up because ultimately it's a way that you are able to accept yourself and love yourself.
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and also show that same kind of love and acceptance to your partner as well because they're human too and they're not going to be perfect right off the bat as well. If anything, if it seems too perfect right off the bat, that might be a red flag for you because I think when we are showing up authentically and like, hey, this is my baggage, I don't really like that word, but you know what I mean. I also like to say grief case. So whatever it is that you're carrying that maybe you're working through or you're
aware of like, I have an issue with anxiety or I'm still working through anxious attachment stuff or sometimes like this happens like as long as you're aware of that and can communicate that to your partner and what you need I think that that is huge in building a healthy foundation for your partnership because I know with my partner and I I had I was not I laughed just like remembering this
But I was not looking for a relationship. I had had people try to pursue me but I was very indifferent and detached from trying to make anything work at that point or trying to make myself small in order to make myself more appealing. I was very much like take it or leave it. This is how I am. I'm showing up like sassy and like not
holding back any information really because I just wanted to see if one, he could handle it and two, like why would I put on my best behaviors for someone like why am I trying to impress this other human? I think that like when we put people on pedestals even if we really admire them even if you really expect them which I do like super admire and respect my partner I do know that he's a person as well and so when he had his own
just coming in to our partnership and I had mine, we were very much able to meet each other where we were at and show that other person love and acceptance through that process. Like I know for him, he was dealing with like his own relationship trauma and pain that he was still processing as was I. And so I think it was something that we really got to hold each other through as well as hold ourselves through and
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really strong communication and show up for each other even when we were maybe like stressed out or triggered or grieving or whatever it was at that moment in time and I think that that was really powerful and really showed each of us like how how I'm starting to get emotional just talking about this I'm just so grateful how
in it we were.
and how we weren't gonna let the stress or the challenges or other people or whatever it was separate what we had going on. We were just very intentional on what want to build together because I think we both really noticed that peace with each other and how we could talk about anything and how we just had so much fun. And we knew that that was us operating in our natural
And that when our natural selves are able to show up and meet it really is something special and so building that foundation on love and acceptance and friendship and communication has really allowed us to Navigate and hold space for each other when one of us or both of us maybe at the same time are Coming up against those growth edges or coming up against something that we're Or something that's uncomfortable or painful and I think that's
really, really special because I think one of the basis of having a partner is not just having someone to love. I yes, that's like a beautiful thing. Or having someone who makes you feel good or that you have fun with. Like I think, yes, those are very important pieces of a relationship.
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But in also, think a lot of times like partnership is really like that person who can hold it down with you when stuff is challenging, that person who you can trust and rely on to support you and vice versa when things get hard, like when you get bad news or when someone is testing your patients or when you're just having a low serotonin day and just like are in a mood. I know I'm talking about myself with that. So, my gosh.
But all that to say, I think that when you're able to know yourself and know your ego and know how you show up under stress and how that's not truly you operating from your heart space or your true self, that's all stuff that you bring to a relationship as well. And it's so important to know those parts of yourself.
show them love and compassion and acceptance and also know how to care for yourself. So you can either ask for help on caring for yourself or ask for space or whatever it is that you need. So that way you can nurture yourself and continue to move from that place of balance and alignment and consciousness and intention. So that's really, really powerful.
And I think it's important again to remember that not only are you showing up in your humanness, but so is that other person. Like they're not gonna be perfect. You're certainly not perfect. Cause that's what it means to be a human. So I think expecting everything to be peachy is dehumanizing at the end of the day. Like I know sometimes I see with my friends like,
maybe the person they're dating will make a mistake just because they don't know how to maybe not do something at that moment in time. Like maybe they don't know that person they're dating is pet peeve is what I mean. Of course there's like red flags of like, that's just not good behavior. Like that makes me feel unsafe or whatever. Like there's a difference. But if that person is just showing up in their humanness and they don't know certain things about you, like they don't know certain preferences about you, like what gets on your
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your skin or whatever, we can't really hold that against them because that is something that they're uninformed about. and so I've, I know I've seen with some of my girlfriends, like they'll be dating a guy and it's almost like they're looking for stuff to be wrong with him. or like as soon as he makes like a petty mistake or something, something maybe he doesn't go exactly how they expected. It's like, they're so quick to write him off. I'm like,
He's a human. Like, I think if the situation were reversed, you would feel like you were deserving of grace if that same thing happened. So like, why can't we give someone grace? So I think it's important to give someone grace. You don't have to make excuses for them. I think they still need to take accountability and check their ego and not like...
not work on things if that's the case. But I think if they're just a person and they don't understand how you operate just yet, yeah, they need to get some grace. I know in the beginning there were certain things that I was really sensitive about discussing because it would just bring up trauma stuff for me basically. And I remember my partner saying something that was in that family of topics and it
definitely made me feel some kind of way and I knew it was my responsibility to explain to him why I was starting to shut down emotionally or why that was something that was, I don't want to say off limits, just sensitive. And immediately he heard me out, he understood, he took accountability, he helped me see that it was not his intention of course to make me feel upset or hurt or anything.
It hasn't happened since then like he fixed the behavior and I haven't had to worry about it since then so all that to say just know that you deserve to have that voice with whomever you're dating and I circle back to knowing yourself and knowing what you need to speak on and knowing your truth and having the courage to know that
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whatever you need to express, you're safe to do so. And if it ever feels unsafe to do so from the other person's influence, you really need to pay attention to that because I know for myself, something I've had to work through is feeling safe, speaking my truth, but because of my own trauma history, because in past relationships, I wasn't free to speak my mind or free to set boundaries or enforce boundaries or whatever the case may be. So I still to this day will sometimes have these moments
of fear of like, I'm afraid to bring this up to my partner, I'm afraid to...
ask for this or inform him of that and that's when I have to really do that soul work that knowing my soul and knowing that I can take care of myself, I deserve to show up, I deserve to be loved through this even if it's something that is sensitive or maybe something I don't like and trusting because my partner has shown me time and time again that he does love me, that he does accept me, choosing that love over that fear that wants to show up and
still having the courage of heart to move forward and express what's on my mind to him. And it always goes way better than I expected my brain because that's the old ways of thinking showing up, like the old patterns that still want to show up of like, Hey, this is the worst case scenario. This is what's happened before that really, really hurt. And our trauma brain doesn't always let those things go right away, but it's through the experiences that we
create for ourselves moving forward that we're able to unlearn those things and show our mind, show our body, show our heart that it is safe because we've decided on this safe person in our life because we know ourselves and trust ourselves enough to choose safe people moving forward. So I think that that is...
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really important to know when it comes down to attracting your soulmate is that your soulmate is not going to shame you for being a human or you making a mistake or if there's something that's really sensitive to you, your soulmate's not gonna make you feel bad about having that sensitivity or having that fear. I think that that's really important and that's even something I told myself when I was in my past relationship.
When I was really starting to like wake up to what was happening. I remember just really wanting to believe in true love. if you hear my dog snoring I'm sorry about that. But I remember just really wanting to believe in true love and wanting and like like knowing on like a soul level of what love was supposed to be and that I was not receiving that.
And in those moments, just really wanting to advocate for what I truly desired, which was a soulmate kind of love. And I remember just telling myself, like, my soulmate...
would never lie to me. Like my soulmate would never gaslight me. Like my soulmate would never mentally abuse me and let me feel so much sadness. Like I just remember like having these like, they sound like no brainers, but when you're in that place of being in something very unhealthy, it can kind of feel like these like monumental thoughts and realizations of like, my gosh, I don't have to go
this and I remember having those moments of like man my future husband like wants me to feel secure and like my future husband like doesn't
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get off on making me feel inferior or scared or sad or whatever it was. I remember having those moments and then it just becomes more more clear of like my soulmate would never do this, my future husband would never do this, and this person's here doing this. I'm like, so these...
This isn't that person. This person is doing this fuck shit, for lack of better words. That's not who I'm supposed to be with. And then it was just like, wow, that just made the decision for me. And it just made saying goodbye to that relationship so much easier. Because I think for so long, I was trying to make that person fit and trying to...
Again, I was overriding so much, overriding the gut feelings, overriding all the signals that my body was telling me that this is not okay. I remember having this moment of just like that, that awakening of like, wow, like this.
Not for me and I've kind of always known it and I need to just stop trying to force it I need to stop trying to make it fit just because I want it to or because this person says they're going to Do the right thing? and just had to really wake up and see it for what it was and be present and sit with the discomfort and Hold myself through that and not beat myself up for It getting to that point
because that was never what either one of us wanted. But it was awesome, my responsibility at that point, once I had that realization of like, okay, like this is not working and I feel confident that I've done everything I can. And I just gotta call it at that point. And I think that's one of the important things about...
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knowing your soul is also like knowing how to be present with not just yourself but like with whomever you're with because I think when we're dwelling on the past we are just conjuring up and cultivating depression
Because depression is when we just in general are feeling sad and unmotivated and all kinds of things. But I think depression really is existing when we are living in the past. And I know like even in the present moment now, like when I start to have these moments of like whether it's like grief or sadness or even like
Some moments of like jealousy or whatever is showing up for me. I know it's because that past mentality is showing up and that Does not belong in the present moment, which there's so much good Available right here right now in the present moment. So that's such a nice little Reminder for me like when those types of thoughts start to show up. I'm like, wow I am NOT thinking and being
where I am right now. I'm putting too much importance on stuff that is long gone and too much of my energy is trying to time travel backwards. that is something that's super important. And then the other end of the spectrum is just as true. When I start to have anxiety about the future of like, what if this happens or what if this happens? It's like, again, my energy, my brain, my thoughts, my being is taking place in a land of that
doesn't exist at all. And I'm just manifesting it by putting my energy there. So drawing my thoughts back to the present moment and not feeding them to the anxiousness that tries to pull me into the quote future, even though that's not predestined or like even happening in this moment, it might as well be because it's real enough in my body because that's where my mind is being occupied or what's occupying my mind are like those anxious thoughts. So
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And then it makes it real in your body. So that's something that I too had to work on. And that's again, another example of just knowing yourself, knowing to care for yourself, but also knowing when to have that kind of tough love with yourself too, and take accountability of like your own thought patterns or belief systems or things that are just needing you to be tender with them. and I think that, along those lines too, like,
your beliefs are so important when it comes down to attracting your soulmate because you have to believe that they exist. Again, that might sound kind of silly, but it's true. Like I know I see with a lot of my friends, especially in this day and age where you see so much in the media about cheating and about like dating being hard.
and not to say that those things aren't happening or like that that's not real.
but and also if that's all you believe is out there or that's just what's gonna happen if you date someone, then of course it's gonna be real. Of course it's gonna be happening. So I think it's really important to believe that the person who is meant for you and that you are meant for exists. And I think that you yourself,
existing and being who you are and working on yourself and embodying the traits and the morals and the virtues that you would like to have in partnership with someone else as well. Not finding them in someone else and seeking them out in someone else, but you embodying what it is that you want yourself and what you desire in a partner. Like for example, if you want a loyal partner, you yourself need to be loyal.
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If you want someone who values self-improvement, you better start valuing self-improvement. You know what I mean? It's like that's that kind of law of attraction. I think it's a double standard if we, and I see this all the time, it's like, I want that person to be loyal, but I don't want to get tied down yet. It's like, well what the hell are you doing? Like, what are you trying to attract at that moment? You're not going to be attracting the right person because that is just misaligned. There's no resonance there.
So I think that I see that a lot in this day and age where people are operating under this belief system of separation and of disconnection and that like, women are crazy and men are like pigs. It's just like all this like really untrue, unfair, double standard, just content and criteria and beliefs that are just being spat out by people who are
not focusing on their healing and who are maybe not super informed or whatever the case may be. I mean, I think that there's just so much information out there that it's that much more important to connect with yourself, connect with your soul, your desires, your discernment. So that way you can filter out the bullshit period and not let it taint.
What you have hope for in this world and I think that that can go for just about anything not just love and your soulmate but especially with your soulmate like know that you are all the evidence that you need to know that your equal partner is out there and wanting you and waiting for you and I know like with my partner the the timing piece for us just could not have been Could not have been more aligned. It was just
wild like I know if I had met him even just like a month or a few weeks before it could have gone a very different way and vice versa if I met him like a few weeks later it could have gone a very different way so it's I I think it's just really really amazing and and such a miracle that we aligned the timeline that we did but
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I think when you have that feeling of like, holy crap, like something bigger than us really conspired to bring us together at the right time, that it just, this is my person. There's, there's just, everything is supporting that. Not just with how we show up for each other, but feeling like there's just something even just unexplainable about how the relationship came to be is truly, truly special.
And it just makes me like, again, it makes me kind of emotional just thinking about it. Cause I'm just like, wow, how did I get so lucky? I'm like, that's amazing. and I wasn't like trying, I wasn't like on dating apps, trying to find someone. Cause I think, sorry, I think some of y'all know I have feelings about that. I think dating apps are kind of like crap to be honest. I mean, they work for some people.
But I personally don't believe in them. And I even said that I was like, I don't want to do them. I don't want to meet anyone on a dating app. Like I want to just live my life, have fun, do the things that I like to do and meet someone organically through that. And boom, that's exactly what happened to my partner and I like met him. Not only do we share like a circle of friends that we didn't realize, but like also met him at like one of my favorite things.
in the world, is a concert and he was performing there. So I'm like, wow, amazing. So it was just so fated. And again, like even in those first moments of showing up, like I didn't care if he liked me or not. Cause I knew like I'm not even that I was like, if this is my soulmate, I wasn't even asking that question. was like, if this person is meant to just be my friend, like they'll accept me. Like I think be careful putting like expectations on like.
gonna find my husband. This is it." Like I was very much just like, just want to see what this person's about. And he seemed really interesting and really cool. And I think he thinks similar to me and like, that's cool. And then it just kind of happened. And I remember in those first few moments, I really didn't care if he liked me or not. I was very detached and just more concerned about like, if I liked him and, and like, is this person like...
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align with my values and at that moment in time, and it still is, but at that moment in time, I was very protective of my peace and I was not entertaining anything or anyone that was gonna make me feel any sense of unrest or confusion or anxiety or just taking that sense of peace away.
I worked really, really hard to get to that place. And I'd had, again, other people pursuing me that I respected and that I admired and I thought were cool people. But they left me hanging or they didn't follow through on their word or they just started to not be consistent. And those are all things that I value and I embody.
And when I started to see the forest for the trees, I had to accept it and be present and be like, I can't make this something that I want. I can't make this person who I want. I need to just accept them for how they are. And that's fine if they want to behave this way, if that's how they're showing up. But also, I need to not accept that if that's not in line with my values. So if they're not being a good communicator or if they're not following through on their word,
That's fine if that's how they want to show up, but I'm not gonna entertain that. anyways, all that to say, you've to just be present and accept it is what it is. And, and then like on the flip side of my partner today, or not, not today, yesterday, but like at that moment in time, when we first started talking, just from the get-go, he was very, very intentional and not letting
any doubt into my mind about how he felt or that he was interested in me or that he wanted to spend time with me or I remember he in the very beginning was talking about like getting me a souvenir when he went on tour overseas and I was like yeah yeah yeah like I've heard that before like sure and I just was like we'll just see how he shows up again just maintaining that detachment just waiting and seeing and then like he did he like
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I mean, the super, super thoughtful present and it was really sweet. And I was very impressed and I'm like, okay, wow, he follows through on his word. I like that. So those kinds of things, I think just require you to be present rather than say like, he said he was gonna do this. I'm gonna hang my whole hat on him doing this or the potential of what this could be, or I really have a crush on this person and I want it to work. So I'm going to.
Overlooked that they didn't follow. No No, we're too we're too grown for that. We don't need to entertain that kind of energy again That's fine for them on their journey. But again, I knew I was capable of keeping my word and And following through and being a good communicator and that's just what I expect in return It's not I don't want to say it's not hard. It does take a time to learn those kinds of things But I also not gonna wait around for someone to like step up
Like, that's just true. I'm not gonna wait around for someone to step up. Especially like me wanting a partner who's in his healthy masculine and therefore is taking that initiative and stepping up and showing that leadership and creating that safe container for me to just be able to relax and not have to wonder where is it going, what's happening, how does he know?
It was, could not have been more the opposite with my partner and I'm so, so grateful for that. but also I believe that that kind of man existed. I wasn't going to like project that onto anyone. I wanted to wait and see who was going to show me that they are capable of showing up for me, like how I deserve and how I want and what I desire and what I believe can exist. I knew I wasn't crazy. Maybe it took a little bit longer than, I was expecting.
I wouldn't say that longer than I would have wanted, but like, think he came right at the right time again, but I think I was just kind of like, again, like, well, it hasn't worked with any of these people. So I'm just kind of like, whatever. I'm just going in the breeze. I'm just going with the flow. And then boom, you just kind of swooped in and, and swept me off my feet. But I think that again, that that just boils down to like being present and not like holding your breath or.
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getting impatient and then therefore settling in on someone but like just really being comfortable with yourself and content with your life and filling it with as much love and joy as you can and then that I think allows you to be receptive to more of that. I think that that's really important like when I was going through my healing process like especially in the very beginning like I was
not emotionally available. I'll be the first to say it. Like I had some, you know, good people who were interested in me, nothing against them, but I had to really push them away and just straight up kind of enforce some very strong boundaries with people. Again, they were good people, but they were just not listening. They were not listening to me when I told them I wasn't ready.
because I knew my heart needed to heal and I knew I needed time for myself and I knew I needed a break and, all that to be said, like, I knew I wasn't going to be able to show up for anyone. I needed to just only show up for myself. I was not emotionally available at those times, but that was me having to take accountability. think, as hard as it was, or as like frustrating as those moments were.
when I really had to like cut some people off because they weren't listening. I laugh because it was just like, if there's any guys, well actually, mean, this goes for anyone, but if someone is telling you that they're not ready, believe them. Like do not try to convince them. Like, no, that's not your job. But anyways, all that to say. Yeah, I was just, my heart was exhausted. Like my heart was just exhausted and I just had.
no patience for any shenanigans. And I just really needed to honor that that emotional availability was real and deserved my attention. And I didn't need to give that away to anyone. I was just in a relationship that was taking up consuming so much of my brain and so much of my energy and attention that I was literally falling apart.
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physically, like my hair was falling out and like all this kind of stuff. So all that to say like I needed that time for myself and I needed to have that time to heal and not just heal so I could feel less pain, not just heal so I could feel less anxiety or feel less stress or feel less grief. Like it wasn't, that's not the only point of healing.
Healing is yes, it's definitely so you can feel less of pain, but healing is also so you can feel more of the good. You can feel more of the joy. And when love comes and sweeps you off your feet, you let it and you're not holding onto that fear. You're not letting the beliefs of society steer you into believing.
nonsense or steer you off of your heart's desires or keep you locked away in fear of something that might not even happen, you know? It's like...
I think that's really one of the main points of healing is again, it's not just to feel less sad. It's not just to feel less fear. It's so you can feel more love, so you can feel more peace and more joy and have not just that in your heart already, but when someone wants to give you more of it, you allow them to, you accept their love for how it shows up and for how they show up. And then you also are able to give
love to and not just take from them but be able to reciprocate. What a concept. Love that reciprocates, right? I think that that's something that has been so huge for me and my partner both because again, the timing of us meeting was so special and we both had these very parallel experiences of being in these relationships that just had long hit their expiration.
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date and that were just draining and that more work was being put in than was being received and so I think it's just so special how we found each other and have just been able to complement each other so organically because not only do we
love showing up for the other person and we love loving them, but we're also in this place of finally being able to receive what it is that we have to offer and like what we're giving we're actually getting back and we're both pouring into each other and that has been a very healing experience for both of us.
It's just, it's very special, it's very sacred. And not to say that like either one of our ex relationships or ex people, whoever like were evil or bad, they just were in a very different place. And it's so cool to be with a partner who you're in alignment with because it is not just being stuck in this cycle or flatlined anything. It's very much like a, we are really, we're growing, we're building.
we're going deeper with each other, we're going deeper with ourselves, we're also expanding and learning more and applying more and it's truly so special. And I'm just so excited for all the just for what's to come and I know that again not everything is going to be puppies and kittens and sunshines and rainbows and stress-free but
I feel so happy knowing that even like the shittiest of shit could come and hit the fan and I would always have love with him and I would always have support with him and I can have someone that I can I can count on and that is just truly priceless and someone that I
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just respect the hell out of and I'm so inspired by and who it just is such an embodiment of what I've desired. And I think that that's something that I've been working through as well as like knowing that like, you can have what you want. Like you're not asking for too much.
you are not too much, but like the right person is just enough and you are just enough for that person. And it's just very special. But again, I had to believe that that was possible and take care of myself enough to stay patient with that truth and stay steadfast and committed to that truth. And then boom, we just came at the perfect time. So
I want to say that that is what I got for you today. Of course, I think I'm going to just keep expanding on these themes as they continue to just develop and show up in my journey and my relationship journey. But all of that has been on my mind and I just was really looking forward to sharing it with you. And I just really hope that this has been able to provide you with some insights and some comfort.
and to serve as a reminder that if you're not in a relationship yet that you deserve to wait for the right person, that it will truly be on time for you. Even if like you're lonely, I think don't call on a relationship if you're lonely, but make your life as spicy and fun because why not? And...
You don't wanna, I guess, outsource your happiness either. So I think make your life as spicy and fun and unapologetically you as you possibly can and then boom, you will attract your person because you are gonna be your best vibration and when things are vibrating at the same frequency, they can't help but just come together and that's very much how it was with my partner and I. So it's just.
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It's so special to me because our love and his love for me and my love for him, just has really been this whole physical manifestation of just... Well, it's just really helped me truly believe in manifestation. It's really helped me truly believe in the law of attraction. I'm like, wow, here is this amazing person, my soul mate.
if I can attract this, like we can truly do anything. And so it's just so special how he's really just shown me and taught me how much like that this manifestation is, is real. And it's just so remarkable.
I'm so grateful. I just love him so much. So thank you for letting me gush and I again Thank you for just like listening and I hope that this helps inspire you and if you're already in a relationship I hope it helps you whether Realize and confirm that it's the right person for you or if it's raised your eyebrow or made you Questions and things I just encourage you to look in words and to trust that and to know that it's never too late It's never too late to
move on to I Mean really just start over if you need to but it's also never too late to Just call in love for yourself however, that looks and wherever you are in the relationship timeline or Wherever you are in that journey just know that you can always call in more love for yourself no matter what happens in that situation and if you
Need any support, feel free to reach out to me at eclipseevolution.com and please stay out or on the lookout for future topics or in podcast episodes about this topic and just more exploration on this because I'm very much in real time reporting to you my findings and I'm very grateful to do so and to be with you on this journey. So again, thank you for being on this journey with me for spending your time, your day, your energy, your money all the
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that you do to access this podcast and to listen to me. It truly means the world and I cannot wait to connect with you again soon. So with that, have a great rest of your day. Thank you and bye for now.
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